What if you find yourself in a broken marriage? Broken trust is one of the huge dangers to keeping your heart closed for too long. Here's how to move forward if you find yourself in this place or nearing it. This final video powerfully unpacks the "why" behind affairs and how to hold on to hope even in midst of a fractured relationship. Get the book that inspired this series. It's called Fight your Way to…

This is the final piece! You know to have an open heart, how to "love talk," and come back together. Now how do you and your spouse come to a solution? Is compromise really the best solution? Who gets their way? The answer comes down to how you function as a team. This video contains a really important piece to the recipe for fighting fair and loving well. Get the book that inspired this series.…

At this point, you know that if you're in that reactive cycle and buttons are being pushed, you need to take a moment away - to get your heart open and head on straight. But what about when that moment is over and you need to come back together? That's a whole new ballgame! Greg and Erin Smalley dig in and give real-life examples that explain where to start and how to work through issues together.…

Ok, so fighting can be a good thing. But what if your fights circle the same issues over and over again? Today's video shows you how to look behind the curtain and see what's really going on with you and your spouse when you fight. Encourage your friends to fight their way to a better marriage, too! Tweet (more…)

This is Satan's strategy. He wants to get you to believe things about yourself and your spouse that will ultimately tear your relationship apart. You don't have to be duped anymore! Learn how to catch these lies in the act and counteract them in today's video. Get the book that inspired this series. It's called Fight your Way to a Better Marriage: How Healthy Conflict Can Take You to Deeper Levels of Intimacy by Dr. Greg Smalley.…

It's normal to look at fighting as a negative way to spend your time. Maybe you're reaching the point in your marriage where you're just tired of trying. You're tired of the confrontation, misunderstandings, hurt feelings and you find yourself wanting to give up on communicating all together. In today's video, Greg and Erin Smalley explain why you might need to rethink that. Fighting - with this secret weapon from today's video - might be exactly what your marriage…