I don’t think so. As a guy who has been married, lost at love, and is trying again to let go and let God…the idea of “the one” doesn’t seem to fit me any more. What if because of my life’s decisions (or theirs) I’ve missed out on my “One”? What now?
What if God doesn’t have one particular person you’re supposed to marry? What if there are many different men or women with whom you could have an equally fulfilling, God-glorifying marriage?
If you want to read a great article on the idea of the one check this link: There is No Such Thing as The One