Why Brant’s 24th Birthday Changed His Life Forever

This month, my life is perfectly split in two.

Exactly 24 years ago this month, I turned 24. What I remember most from that month wasn’t my birthday: It was this guy I met.

He was very, VERY short. I remember that.

So short, in fact, that the first time I met him, someone just… handed him to me. Seriously. They handed me a guy.

I didn’t really know how to interact with him, so I turned to my wife, who normally does my socializing. She seemed really tired, so this guy and I just kind of stared at each other.

He wouldn’t tell me his name (he just sniffed and snuffled) so I gave him one.

Things were awkward, but eventually – it took quite awhile, actually – he was open to intelligent conversation.

WOW, did that guy catch on to stuff.

He didn’t know how to play chess, so I taught him… and then he beat me. He didn’t know how to read, so my wife showed him… and then he graduated from Berkeley. I shared my copy of a Tolstoy book with him… and now he speaks fluent Russian. We bought him a Little Spy Kit for $8… and now he’s an Intelligence Officer in the U.S. military.

Yikes.

When they hand you a snuffling small guy in a blanket like that, sure, he’ll look sleepy, but he’s totally sand-bagging you.

A friend of mine once told me, “You never know how selfish you are until you get married.” And he was right, but make no mistake: You learn it all over again when they hand you a guy like that.

I’m glad they did that. I’m glad I met that guy.

The first 24 years of my life were mostly me thinking about me. The second 24? Not so much.

The second half has been way, way better.

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Linda Adesanya
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Linda Adesanya

Beautiful tribute to your son Brant!

Sheila R Chimento
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Sheila R Chimento

What a beautiful thought about your, not little anymore, guy. Being a parent is a wonderful world.

Chrissy
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Chrissy

Love this! Love your heart and love your heart for your son! Beautifully written!

Kim Oanh Curtin Cash
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Kim Oanh Curtin Cash

You are an awesome father and man of God, Brant! I am humbled and blessed to know you 🙂 Jesus loves you and your wife, your son and your daughter. Aloha and Agape Love, Kimi 😉

Pat
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Pat

This is wonderful Brant. I always love to hear what you have to say on the radio too.

Kayreen Bellamy
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Kayreen Bellamy

I Love this so much! Your thoughts,words and feelings are fantastic! You, your wife and children are truly blessed.

Susan
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Susan

Way to let God change your paradigm
Susan R-D????

Susan
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Susan

Way to let God change your paradigm!

Kathy Clark
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Kathy Clark

Love this!

Keith
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Keith

No one has ever said it better. Wow!

Marcia
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Marcia

The poem you just read about your son and “Just Wait” can you PLEASE post it. Amazing, you made me cry.

Trena
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Trena

What a beautiful love story. I feel the same about my son. He too is serving. I love my beautiful miracle son. God answered my prayer for a child when I was told I would never have a child. God is awesome ! Ty for sharing

Also love your show! So funny!

Monica Oliver
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Monica Oliver

❤💚💜💙